St. Mary's Meppershall

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Looking after the churchyard

It is much more than a garden around the church. It is a burial ground, but also a place of prayer and quiet reflection, recreation, an ancient habitat for rare plants and animals, and the setting of the church building

How can I help?

We have a dedicated team of volunteers who mow the grass – why not volunteer? Call Revd Roni

Look out for regular Tidy Up days – join the work party: good company and lunch provided!

Find out about looking after churchyards and conservation see: Caring for God’s Acre

thank you to everyone who looks after our churchyard – you make it a beautiful place of peace and reflection for us all

Revd Roni Goodman

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Looking after a grave: FAQ

You can help maintain the churchyard by keeping these few simple rules – avoid the disappointment of having work re-done

only fresh flowers, in a vase of permitted stone, are allowed to adorn graves – artificial flowers are discouraged.
If you do use them however, they should reflect the season of the year and must/will be removed if they have become dirty, discoloured, or wires pose a hazard to our mower.

only bulbs or annual flowers may be planted – no trees, shrubs or miniature conifers

no glass vases, jam jars or ornaments of any kind – they are easily broken and may present a danger to our volunteers maintaining the churchyard and to other visitors.

Plastic vases are discouraged for aesthetic reasons, and they can be hazardous to wildlife too.

Please see “Flower Vases” in the regulations (link below)

no lights or lanterns, (including solar lights) are allowed and may be removed

grave surrounds and stone chippings are forbidden – not just for aesthetic reasons.
They are dangerous for our volunteers operating lawnmowers and strimmers

Space is limited – you may place one suitable (not glass) container of fresh flowers above or on the memorial plaque. This will help keep the appearance of the Garden neat for everyone – and avoid ‘crowding’ other spaces.

Please note that dead flowers and discoloured or unseasonal artificial flowers may be removed. Thank you so much for caring for your grave and for the Garden of Remembrance too.

To help keep our churchyard beautiful, respectful and orderly, please read the Guidance on Monuments and Burials below and the Regulations – they are to ensure dignity and respect for the departed and they try to be fair to everyone.

When arranging for family members to be interred in the churchyard, bereaved relatives are agreeing to abide by the Diocesan regulations.

The regulations describe the types of memorial which are permitted and the materials which may be used.

A simple wooden cross marks a grave at the time of interment, and a small mound of earth will usually be left.

After about a year the grave should be levelled, and at that time you can apply to the Rector for a memorial. The application form is usually completed by the Funeral Director.

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